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The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Guest Dress Codes

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Planning a wedding means making a million little decisions, and one of the most important is setting your wedding dress code. The right dress code ensures your guests feel comfortable, stylish, and aligned with your vision. Whether you’re dreaming of a glamorous black-tie event, a breezy beachside celebration, or something in between, clear dress code guidelines will help everyone feel their best.

Not sure where to start? Don’t worry! This ultimate guide to wedding dress codes will help you set the perfect tone for your big day.

The National Arts Centre in Ottawa, Ontario, a stunning wedding venue, captured by Emily Michelson Photography.
The National Arts Centre in Ottawa, Ontario, offers a beautiful and iconic setting for your wedding celebration. Photo by Emily Michelson Photography.

Black Tie Wedding Dress Code

If you’re envisioning an evening of elegance, chandeliers, and champagne towers, a black-tie wedding dress code is the way to go. This level of formality adds instant glamour and ensures your wedding feels timeless and sophisticated.

What to Wear

A true black-tie event calls for refined and elegant attire. This means dressing at the highest level of formality, ensuring an atmosphere of sophistication and grandeur.

For those opting for suits, a well-tailored tuxedo or dark formal suit with a bow tie is essential. Velvet or silk lapels add an extra layer of refinement, while a crisp dress shirt and polished dress shoes complete the ensemble. Accessories such as cufflinks, a pocket square, and a sleek watch enhance the overall look.

For those wearing gowns or formal evening attire, floor-length silhouettes in luxurious fabrics such as satin, chiffon, or velvet create a stunning impression. Dark hues such as black, navy, or deep jewel tones elevate the elegance, but rich, sophisticated lighter tones can also work beautifully. Consider statement jewellery, classic clutches, and elegant updos or sleek hairstyles to complement the refined aesthetic.

Pro Tip: Clearly state “Black Tie” on your invitation and wedding website so guests know what to expect. Providing visual inspiration or a mood board can also help set expectations and guide guests in their outfit selection.

Groom and Groomsmen Portraits taken by Martine L. Image

Formal or Black Tie Optional Wedding Dress Code

Want a fancy feel but with a little more flexibility? A formal wedding dress code (or black tie optional) allows tuxedos while also permitting dark suits.

What to Wear

Guests can opt for a well-tailored suit in black, charcoal, or navy with a tie or bow tie. Long gowns, polished cocktail dresses, or dressy jumpsuits are all appropriate choices. Choose refined fabrics such as chiffon, satin, or velvet.

This dress code offers a balance between formal and relaxed while maintaining an air of sophistication.

Bride and Bridesmaid Portraits taken by Danielle Meredith Photography

Semi-Formal Wedding Dress Code

A semi-formal wedding dress code strikes the perfect balance between elegance and comfort. Ideal for afternoon and evening weddings, it’s polished without feeling too rigid.

What to Wear

A tailored suit or blazer with dress pants creates a refined yet approachable look. A dress shirt with an optional tie adds versatility, while sleek leather dress shoes or loafers complete the ensemble.

For those wearing gowns or formal attire, knee-length dresses, tailored separates, or chic jumpsuits are ideal. Look for fabrics like satin, chiffon, or crepe to maintain a refined appearance. Accessories such as bold jewellery, stylish clutches, and polished footwear add personality while keeping the outfit sophisticated.

Pro Tip: Consider the season when choosing your outfit. Lighter colours and fabrics work well for spring and summer, while darker tones are perfect for fall and winter.

Bride and Bridesmaid portrait taken by Lauren Elizabeth Photography

Cocktail Attire Wedding Dress Code

Cocktail attire is a step down from semi-formal but still polished and stylish. It’s perfect for lively receptions filled with dancing and socializing.

What to Wear

A tailored suit or blazer with dress pants creates a refined yet approachable look. A dress shirt with an optional tie adds versatility, while sleek leather dress shoes or loafers complete the ensemble.

For those wearing gowns or formal attire, knee-length dresses, tailored separates, or chic jumpsuits are ideal. Look for fabrics like satin, chiffon, or crepe to maintain a refined appearance. Accessories such as bold jewellery, stylish clutches, and polished footwear add personality while keeping the outfit sophisticated.

This dress code lets your guests feel stylish yet comfortable, setting a fun and social atmosphere.

Gorgeous Beach Wedding captured by Toronto Photographer 515 Photo Co

Beach Formal Wedding Dress Code

A beach formal dress code embraces the relaxed setting of a seaside wedding while ensuring guests still look polished.

What to Wear

A light-coloured suit, dress pants with a breezy button-down, or a tailored vest with a linen shirt are excellent options. Footwear should be suitable for sand—opt for loafers or dressy sandals.

For those wearing gowns or flowy attire, flow gowns, lightweight jumpsuits, or dressy skirts with elegant blouses are wonderful choices. Soft pastels, light blues, or tropical prints complement the seaside setting. Accessories like wide-brimmed hats, sunglasses, or delicate jewellery add an effortless charm.

Pro Tip: Let guests know about the terrain. If walking on sand, suggest wedge heels or flat sandals.

Newlywed Portraits captured by Scott Wilson Photography

Casual Wedding Dress Code

A casual wedding dress code works best for relaxed outdoor or rustic weddings. While laid-back, it still requires guests to look neat and stylish.

What to Wear

Chinos or dress pants paired with a stylish button-down shirt create a polished yet comfortable outfit. A lightweight blazer or sweater can add refinement, while loafers, polished sneakers, or casual dress shoes complete the look.

If you don’t want to wear pants, sundresses, skirts with elegant tops, or flowy jumpsuits make excellent choices. Avoid overly casual pieces such as denim, flip-flops, or graphic t-shirts. Instead, stick to breathable fabrics and soft, natural tones that complement the relaxed wedding vibe.

Pro Tip: Remind guests that casual doesn’t mean sloppy. Encourage a put-together look while allowing comfort.

How to Communicate Your Wedding Dress Code

Clear communication is key to ensuring guests dress appropriately. Here’s how to avoid any confusion:

1. Include the Dress Code on Your Invitations

List the dress code clearly on your invitation so guests know what to expect. For unique themes like “Garden Party Chic,” provide a brief description.

2. Add a “What to Wear” Section on Your Wedding Website

Use your website to expand on the dress code. Include images or examples of appropriate outfits to guide guests.

3. Use Friendly, Descriptive Language

Instead of just “Formal Attire,” say “Think elegant evening wear—floor-length gowns and tailored suits encouraged.” This paints a clearer picture.

Setting expectations helps guests feel comfortable while ensuring your wedding aesthetic stays cohesive.


A Personal Note from Me to You

Your wedding day is a reflection of your love story, and every detail—including your wedding dress code—helps set the scene. Clear guidelines ensure your guests feel at ease while matching the vibe you’ve envisioned.

At Wild Bloem Studios, we specialize in curating unforgettable weddings filled with thoughtful details and intentional design. If you need help refining your wedding vision, we’re here to bring it to life. From planning and florals to full-scale design, we ensure every element aligns perfectly with your dream wedding.


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Thank you to Scott Wilson Photography, Emily Michelson Photography, Danielle Meredith Photography, Lauren Elizabeth Photography, Martine L. Image, and 515 Photo Co for all of the photos in this post.

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